Etika Apabila Melalui Road Block Polis Di Waktu Malam

Ok. Saya tidak boleh tidur. Mungkin disebabkan terlalu letih atau disebabkan kerap terjaga.

Dalam terjaga dan terkelip-kelip saya teringatkan Road Bock Polis yang saya lalui tadi.

Tahukah anda bahawa anda perlu memasangkan lampu di dalam kereta dan membuka cermin tingkap bahagian pemandu/penumpang kereta sewaktu melalui Road Block Polis di waktu malam???

Sewaktu memperlahankan kenderaan, saya dapati hanya segelintir yang berbuat demikian. Akibatnya, pihak polis terpaksa menyuluh ke dalam kereta sebelum melepaskan sesebuah kereta. Ini membuatkan kerja mereka menjadi lambat.

Akibatnya mereka dimaki dan dicaci kononnya sengaja melambatkan perjalanan anda. Sedangkan anda tidak menyedari bahawa kesilapan itu terletak dibahu anda sendiri dan pemandu yang lain yang tidak menyedari kewujudan etika ini.

Sekiranya anda membuka lampu dan cermin pintu tempat duduk pemandu/penumpang dan anda tidak ada apa apa kesalahan trafik, anda akan dilepaskan tanpa perlu memberhentikan kereta. Perbuatan membuka lampu dan cermin tingkap menunjukkan anda tidak ada membuat apa-apa kesilapan.

Seorang teman (nama dirahsiakan) pernah menyatakan bahawa dia terlepas dari road block polis beberapa kali kerana melakukan perkara sedemikian walaupun hakikatnya lesen memandunya telah tamat lebih dua bulan (perbuatan ini adalah salah disisi undang-undang. Jangan ditiru aksi ini- grrrrr).

Tidak percaya, anda boeh mencubanya apabila anda terserempak dengan road block polis. Perhatikan juga jiran pemandu yang lain. Anda akan rasa perbezaan diantara tidak membuka lampu dan tingkap dengan membuka lampu dan tingkap. The best things is, lampu suluh tidak akan disuluh kemuka anda dan anda tidak akan silau (dan muncul tompok-tompok gelam di depan mata - siapa suruh tak buka lampu, rasakan hehhehheh).

Ohhh, tidak ada orang yang beritahu anda??? OK sekarang sudah tahu, so apa tunggu lagi, beringatlah ya.

Lepas ini jangan lupa Etika Melalui Road Bock Polis Di Waktu Malam. Moga perjalanan anda lancar selepas ini..... Kalau tak buat dan kene suluh, jangan marah, nanti cepat tua hikhikhik

Raya : Invite or Not to Invite? Hmmm

A friends call and inform me that she and the gang will come to my house on 31st. As a Muslim Malay, I will received my house guess with a lots of foods for them to enjoy.

Mind you, my friends is a Chinese. My husband highlighted this issue to me, how do you think they view us now?

So, I am informing him that, what ever it is, they are still my friends unless they said otherwise. 

Now, these is an interesting fact, during our chatting I discover that she didn't get a lot of open house invitations this year. Even a neighbours didn't invited her. When she asked they just inform her about the family visit or somethings.

Don't want to hurt her feeling, I just say that this year there really only a few open house even for a Malay. With the virus going around (I used my selves as example) a lot of people was not feeling well. Guess they just celebrated as simple as possible. She can visit her neighbour during hari raya because it will always an open house.

But it also make me wonder, do the trend I read in a lot of blogs of commenter don't want to invited the chinese to their open house was already getting popular?

Well for me, I believed that every guess who come to my house brings a lot of bless regardless what races they are. So I will welcome my friends, act as normal as I can (even in some of her posting in FB hurt my feeling but I attributed it to the heat of the moment via Mei 5) and see where the water flow.

I will open my door to them and prepare  foods for them to enjoy. As far as I go, I will always be a mild minded Malay. I cannot be ultra recist who will cut their friendship to other races.

As per now, I'm happy receiving a guess and with the neighbouring kids asked me again and again, what time they can come, I guess it a signal I get my raya moods now.

Other political issue, will be put in the back burner now, unless it need my special attention. After all not all of our politician as smart as they try to project. Just hear what they saying. A wonder people elected them. But GE13 prove perception not an issue will win the day duh.

Well those who know me, come and visit will you. Trust I will never judge you because of your races. Just how smart you are or in some cases how funny you are hahahahaha........

Please Understand Rukun Negara Before Making Stupid Comment

OK. Why I used the above title? Let me tell you an interesting story which has happen to me yesterday.

By all count, I usually keep quite when facing with aggressive politic people or wanna be politician (hahaha) or what ever related to politic in public. If they want to say something to me regarding their personal politic preference, I let them be.

I look at it as a way of public service to hear them out so they will not stress out because of keeping everything inside (hahahaha).

No lah, actually sometimes I find it a little irritating but guess I have more patient then some. If they want to go on and on and on about how good their political parties, and want to say somethings about it during waiting for their turn in the bank, I'm ok with it. It will stop until their or my number get call right?

Only a few minutes of sometimes a boring how good this and that and why, what, which, when and where. So be it.

But today, someone give me the version of their interpretation of Rukun Negara. Rukun Negara only have 5 items in it.

Kepercayaan Kepada Tuhan
Kesetiaan Kepada Raja Dan Negara
Keluhuran Perlembagaan
Kedaulatan Undang-undang
Kesopanan Dan Kesusilaan

But this guy, for what ever reasons, think that Kepercayaan Kepada Tuhan need to be changed to Kepercayaan Kepada Allah. Why???

And he have a gut to blame that these what he thinking a "mistake" to BN. Then proceed informing me that if PR take over they will surely correct this mistake once and for all. Geezzzzz......

What eating me more is, this guy claim he have a Degree in  Political Science. What's more, he not even a Muslim.I can understand if the claimed made by a Muslim but a non-Muslim? Duh....

At home, I wonder, how many young man/women who don't understand (or don't want to understand) why Rukun Negara existed.

My opinion on Rukun Negara, it existing as a rules for us Malaysian how to interact with each other. It a rules to us on who must we give our loyalty too. It a base on which side we must stand for.

OK. Let me tell you why I think they used the word Tuhan not Allah in Rukun Negara. Because word Tuhan implied to all Tuhan across all religious Mr Not So Smart Guy. If they used the word Allah, those Rukun Negara only applied to Muslim. It will alienated all other religions in Malaysia.

So today rather than shut up like always, I inform these guy, don't highlight this things in public again. If you stupidly (yes I used those word) want to get attention using this issue, please don't tell everyone you have a degree in Political Science and please don't say from which Uni. It make you Uni sound stupid.

And Yes, he's getting angry and try to bully me by increasing his voice, but I quickly inform him that he's the one who talk to me in the first place. I don't even talk to him but to the uncle who sit beside me. He come and try to take over our conversation.

See, no Kesopanan dan Kesusilaan there.

The end of it, the uncle who talking to me in the first place turn out to be an ex-lecturer. He quietly inform this guy that if you don't understand Rukun Negara, do not try to speak about it like a brilliant nationalist. Just study and make a research about it first.

After all, he know, that this guy lecturer already teach him how to do a research and collecting and interpreting the data. Used that tools which your lacturer given it to you.....

When my number getting call out, he still lecturing this young man. Me, I just shut my mouth and hear what this uncle have to say. And to that guy, hahahahaha. served you right.

Do I have a sympathy for this types of guys, NO.

To others, mind your tongue when you speak in public area. For heaven sake, just keep quite if you don't know the issue discuss. Just don't pretend you know everything and open your mouth. You might end up upsetting someone else. Like this young guys.

Poor him? Nah, I reserved it to others.....Sorry no sympathy from me.....

Just hehhehhehhehheh.....




 

Oh Boy! Open House vs Political View....

I just come back from a closed relative Open House. It make a splash in her area because, she a well known doctor.

Let me share you few incidents that make me Hmmmmm....

1st incident.

A Chinese family comes, the doctor, ever gracious, invited them to sit where ever they want as a lot of table still not been occupy yet. This family sit on the middle of the tent and proceed enjoying their meals.

Then the wife just walk out without courtesy of meeting the doctor with her kids. But then, their kids noticed that a few kids who salam the doctor get the angpow envelope. By then they already arrived at the end of the tent.

The family without shame, turn around, go to the doctor and proceed inform in the loud voice to the doctor that their kids still didn't received the angpow envelope and told her if she this forgetful, why bother for open house and then take the angpow and then leave without salam. Really??? I watch in disbelieved.

Personal opinion, Hey, this is not a public open house lah. It private and please used your brain. You don't feel a things when you asked the doctor for angpow after leaving without salam and said thank you? Then you not fit to joint the community. What give you right to get angry with the doctor when she didn't even know you were leaving. Geezzz are you.......

2nd incident.

A Malay family come and suddenly the husband stop from coming to the doctor house. He then tell his wife somethings then turn around and sit in his car. His wife proceed meeting the doctor with her kids in tow.

What I observed, a few times, his kid take a bunch of foods and take it to him. He just eat in his car.

I then asked one of his kids, what going on, and he said "Abah tak mau masuk sebab kat pagar rumah ada bendera BN". Haaaaaaa.......

My personal opinions, if you don't want to mix up with other people, just don't come lah. Aiyooo. And you make your kids bring the foods to you some more. Gosh. Is this guy for real????? Cannot come in but can eat their food??? Please inform me what logic did you used. Gezzzzzz

For those who don't know how to act when go to open house, here the tips.

People, people, when you come to private open house, after been invited, please meet the host before you eat. Then after enjoying your free meals, when you want to go back home, please meet the host again and say thank you OK.

People, people, the angpow envelope is usually for the kids. Remember, this is  not a public function. Your already eat a free meals. That your angpow OK. Those who already 18 and above don't eligible to received it. Got it.

People, people, if you come to open house, please leave your political view at your house. Please. don't make a fool of yourself by doing something stupid like the 2nd incident. Don't like any parties, then don't come.

People, people,  remember those simple tips OK..... and those who don't understand this simple rules, please don't go to the open house.....Got it...

Just enjoy your stay at home and let us enjoy ourselves without your present hahahahaha

It's All Pakatan Fault ....(You Can Do It, Yes We Can Too)

During my hibernation after getting well from The Flu (hehhehheh) I come to conclusion, except the Genting Tregedy, everything was Pakatan fault.

No, really.

You don't believe me? Well, think about it.

First, Nazri choose his son to be his special representative and ok with it. Why? Because he look at DAP and noticed that LKS and KS have their son to help them out. And if follow correctly, like LKS and KS, his son will become YB one of this day. DAP show the way, Nazri follow it. Like a cartoon said, "Can We Do It, Yes We can". (hehhehheh)

So who's fault Nazri think it is ok? Not Tun M, he prevented his son to joint politic when he was PM. Not Tun Razak, only after he gone, Najib get to represented Pekan.

Soooooo, Pakatan especially in Nazri case, DAP done it and not a beep come from their supporter saying it is wrong. Come to think about it, it happen in abandon in Pakatan alliance and it is still ok for their supporter.

Oh, speaking of Nazri, you need to mention Khairy right. Well, I also can justify his present in political arena. If Hadi and Nik Aziz can choose their son in law, why can Pak Lah (hihihihi).

It a free country man. If other in Pakatan can do it, what make it a Law that BN cannot do it too? And Pakatan say, they the best right. So, why all the noise saying it is not right?????? Look at Pakatan. If they can do it, so can you.

And, if Najib want to, he can choose his son to be MT and Rosmah as President just like PKR. Is that wrong? No. If it is right for PKR, why it is wrong for BN? What right for PKR, it should be right for BN too. (I'm a fair judge right hahahahaha)

That why I can't understand why a lot of noise about Rosmah. She's nobody in UMNO unlike Wan Azizah and Nurul Izzah present in PKR. No power.

Unless you count on someone who said she influence Najib in everything. Gosh and you believed it. Unless of course your wife is a Queen Control and influent you in everything. That why you get to that conclusion. Are you????? (People always make conclusion base on their experianced hehhehheh)

By the way, I love to see what happen in DAP CEC. If they do it before UMNO, then it will show the  way how UMNO should uphold their own. Why???? Because, You Can Do It (DAP), Yes We Can too (BN) hehhehheh

Now I know I'm still under infuence of my medication......Ignore my rumbling please hihihi

And as my personal view, all of you out there, open your eyes please. Look at those politician. Now it is the time to look and evaluate them. Do they do their job as your representative? Or are they working hard to show they working hard (we know right hehhehheh) or are they enjoying their time as your representative (5 years honeymoon time hehhehheh).

Life Lesson From A Cat

My cat given a birth just two weeks ago. She not really my cat. Just a cat I nurse when she come to my house one day and I notice that she cannot sit properly. When I check her out, I found out the someone just cut her tail. I never curse and I mean never but on that day, I really curse this st### human monster who have no heart.

Yup, I call this irresponsible person a human monster.

Now back to my cat. Last Tuesday, one of her litter died. And if you know your pet you will realised that animal have their way of mourning. My cat miaows and stared at nothing most of the time. She didn't eat properly and I have to take her to her foods and wait for her to eat. If not, she will refused to eat.

Today, this morning to be exact, I realised that she not picky anymore. She looks better and back to her usual self again. I said to myself, she is OK now. She eating like never before and like always, follow me to the kitchen or running to the kitchen when she hear me in it.

This afternoon I hear the kitten miaow. It getting louder and louder, that it getting to a point when I had to check it out. I follow the sound and realised it come from my roof.

When I checked it out, I found a kitten on top of my roof. Well, I said to myself, looking the way my cat acted when losing her kitten, what if I give her another. The kitten is about a week I guess. Either way, without a mother milk, it can died.

I put the lost kitten in my cat basket together with her other litter. And she just look at me and lick this lost kitten and nudge it to her belly.

Ok, I admit, I cried. It soooo beautiful and also soooo touching when she accepted the lost kitten.

Guess, we too can sometimes learn something from the animals. Unlimited love to our children.

So guys, I share this story of mother love to you. Maybe I should wait for a mother days to share it but then again, it so touching that I think I need to share it now.

Love, and mother love will always be limitless.....

And Love our children. If a cat can have that much love, do we dare as a human have less love than this cat. Think about it ok.

Feeling...Hmmm Ok

I'm getting better and better day by days.

Well, it's look like, I will begin my Raya later than usual, and for the first time I can remember celebrating Raya that is.

Never before I am celebrating Raya this late, but then that is life I guess. It will throw something unexpected to you every now and then.

I take it like this. Just go with the flow and accepted it. Don't regret it.

That's my friends, is how I always rationalised everything that comes in my way.

Well, my fever was well known by now by a lot of children in my housing area. A few comes in front of my house and asked when they can come to my house. Tell them to look at my front door, when it's open, I officially start open my house hahahahaha.

I know few of this kids quite sometimes now. Some already grown up but still comes to my house for a nice visit. I will enjoying their visit.

A few of this kids jokes that my Raya this time will be until Aidiladha. You kids.......Hahahaha

 My plan is to start opening my house tomorrow and today, I already start preparing for Kuah Kacang. I'm planing to start simmering my Nasi Impit after this. It will take 3 hours to finish.

This Friday I will start preparing for rendang. I expect the flow of relatives starting  this weekend. They already call.  After all it the last weekend before school break ends.

Time to continue my raya preparation. Considering my health condition right now, Slowwwwly hahahahahaha......

Still Under The Weather But I Can Manage.....

Going back to my hometown, Hulu Langat, on Wednesday. I still have some leftover of The Flu Virus in me, but then it is not like a week before. I'm feeling better.

Yeah, I'm trying to convince myself that I'm feeling better but I already lost my voice. But then again, I can stand up without feeling much dizziness. It just the cough taking over the flu, I guess.

I'm applying all suggestion by anon commenter on my "OMG : Getting Tired". It really help to reduce The Flu. Thank you so much for it.

And today, for the first day of Hari Raya I went to my grandma houses (both of them) and having a nice visit. Only this years, unlike any other years, I limited myself with the rules of having hot beverages with the exception of coffee and nescafe.

I'll also try avoiding any fried kuih like Lidah Buaya and chips like kerepek pisang, rempeyek and tumpi. Even though it is my favourite.

When facing with all those trial, I take a philosophy approach that I will eat it after raya.

I will hold myself for this first few days. Be patient my heart. You will get what your desires after I'm feeling better. We will search for Kerepek Pisang Tanduk and we will enjoy it. Be patient...be patient. Your day will come and it will be worth it.....Yummmmmm

I will enjoy everything when I'm feeling well hahahaha.... See I'm still positive......yeahhhhh

And to all this blog readers who celebrate Hari Raya Aidilfitri, I hope it is not to late to wish all of you Selamat Hari Raya, be grateful and thankful that you manage to complete you Ramadhan this year and pray that Allah will give us a blessing for another Baraqah Ramadhan next year, Insya Allah. Amin.

For those who don't, enjoy your holiday.

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri, Maaf Zahir Dan Batin.......

OMG : Getting Tired.....

It has been a week now that I'm not feeling well. I got a full blown flu and it tiring me out. My kids just ask me to rest for a while. They will do whatever necessary to prepare for Raya.

Well, after a week, now it included cough and headache. OMG what to do. Only 3 days more before raya and I'm not really prepared anything. Even my husband voicing his concern about my health and asked me to stay in bed.

Looks like I have a free times. I try to avoid all news that can stress me out. Especially politics. I avoids it but then there is a lot of things that can stress me out. Look what Zainah SIS try to justify. Look how people try to take side in Sri Pristina School while forgetting about student who supposed to be more important than them. Look at syiah movement.....Geeeezzzz why this people never stop.....

Arghhhhh avoid...avoid.... Or should I say Abort...abort...abort... Or is it The pain or.the plain?????? Confused?????...........Blame it to my flu...... Now I have a reasons to win a battle, blame it to flu hahahaha

Well, I think it times to take a stand. I will win this battle of fighting this flu before Raya. Haiiiiiyah......

Forget Everything Folks ; It Raya Time Lah

It nearly the end of  puasa. My kids was soooooo exited. They only have one things in mind. It Raya times. Time to meet the relative and collected duit raya. Yes, that what in the mind of the kids.

Forget about what you preach regarding don't be so hopeful in receiving a lot of duit raya years after years. Forget reminding them that's what is more important is to meet and know your relatives. They will forget it as soon as takbir raya sounding on the TV.

In the kids minds now days is that Raya means a holiday to enjoys. What specials in this holiday is that they will received Duit Raya. For some, this is the first time they will have a lots and lots and lots of money, especially if this kids is resourceful enough to go to every house in their kampung or taman.

As always we grown up will entertain whoever come, kids or grown up to our house in this raya days. So for those who want to preach me that it not duit raya was important, I will tell them, lets kids be kids. Just remind them but don't spoilt their fun's. It is kind of rewards for them for fasting a month and it time for them to enjoys themselves during these Raya.

You remembers how it is back then right? How you will visit your relative and friends house and receiving those Duit Raya. How exiting it is for you and how much fun you have with your duit raya? So don't spoilt out kids fun by preaching soo much. Bear in minds this is their time.

If you want to preach about the bad thing about duit raya to our kids, just preach it to their parents after Raya ok. But please don't spoilt the kids fun's. For me it the human right to enjoy their childhood and one of those enjoyment was celebrating hari raya with duit raya.

For us the grown up just remember to do our Syawal Fasting to added to our Ramadhan Fasting. Ask your kids to joint you too. It a reminder for them not to eat too much. But hey remember ok, don;t spoils the kids fun

But for me, who cares. Let the kids have their fun. Just remind them softly years after years and one of these days like me, they will remember it. Those days of enlightenment will come to them sooner than you and I can imagine. They will grow up.

Have a nice end of Ramadhan folks and lets kids be kids ok..........There goes another lagu raya from my daughter again...well as long as she enjoys herself.....Hahahahaha

EO - I Want Emergency Ordinant Back

It getting more and more dangerous out there. Especially if you are rich enough or if you were in the right position to influences in somethings. Why? If you have a power and don't want to used it to help a certain people in breaking the law, you were in danger. People can simply ORDER someone to silence you or removed you. That how I perceived this day with a lot of shooting going around.

Some will say this was another of my conspiracy theories, but guy think about it for a second. Don't you think it odd when a lot of influence people, who have a position, getting shoot at day by days?

If you think very carefully, this was the job done by someone who is orderly and brave enough to make a call to kill someone. Usually to someone who stay in their way.  This people will do anything and that including killing us if necessary. We are nothings to them.

Last time,we have EO to detains this type of people. This is how it go ok. If by any chances the police receiving info that certain people will used their power to break the law and if by any chances it will effected the people at large, under EO, police have a power to detain this people. It's like Patriot Law in USA where FBI can detains you who's under suspicious of treason.

As per now, police can only detain, questioning and release if no concrete evidence. Yup, any criminal who worth their salt know that police hand are tight right now. Think ok, to prove somethings, you need evidence. it will involving a lots of manpower and utilities.

Now I will ask you a simple question, how much manpower and utilities police can spare just to search for avoidance in each of this cases? I think, this criminals know that by taking a multiple target they will overwhelm the police and their resources. After all all of this was a hardcore criminals. They know the rules and they know how the police need to work. The police follow the rules but this criminal won't.

So guys, what ever you thinks, I will put my feet down as said, we need EO because, of the simple fact, criminals don't follow the common law so to deal with them we also need the Law that can give the police and upper hand in dealing with them.

Now, if other people give a human right reason to me, I just ask them a question about people at large human right, those who follow the law. The majority who have the right to live in the safest areas without this criminal. If you really loves this peoples, why don't you lives with them then. See how long you will survive. And after this argument, they don't have any answers.

Others, to those who I know loves to take USA as example, I just give them a simple answer, Patriot Act. At least in Malaysia, EO don't give a permissions to ........ to detainee. So,we are more humane right????

Weekend Blues And DrM Chinese & Malay Dilemma

I'm feeling under the weather today. Come to think of it, maybe because for the past weeks I really skip a lot of sleep. About 3 to 5 hours daily was not good for you I guess. Now I'm paying the heaviest prices. I really feel weak and tired.

I also going back to my hometown, Hulu Langat, this weekend. My most interesting found was a Kuih Lopez Daun Pisang at Bazar Ramadhan Taman Nanding Hulu Langat. This Bazar situated in the heart of Taman Nanding. If you lives near there, try to find it out. Last time I remember eating this kind of kuih lopez was nearly 20 years ago.

Now, I also read about DrM's Chinese dilemma. Well it a given, after writing about the Malay's Dilemma, after seeing the major problem's of the Malay, he need to inform the Chinese what their major problem's now. He need to do it I guest, to give a fair treatment to both side's.

And after reading it, I kind of get a vision that LKS will reply it with his Tong Kosong facts. Hahaha, just kidding. Actually it a same circle all around since they both involved in politic lah. DrM give statement to inform the Chinese what ever they been doing was hurting a lot of Malay, then LKS will issue's a statement to branded DrM whatever fancy him on that time.

You don't need to become a Nujum Pak Belalang, Tok Nujum Serekap Jarang, Wahai Nujum Pak Belalang, Tok Nujum Kaki Temberang, to know this will happen. Don't believed me? Find it yourself  lah. All of you is a smart and brilliants mans and women. History state and record it. Learn your history yourself. If you are lazy, you will get sucker up in LKS game. I don't have a heart and energy to find it for you right now.

So, I already take my paracetamol, my flu and cough medicine and feel sleepy right now. I let DrM poke LKS expertly as he is the seasons political figure's who know how to play this game. Me, I just watch it from a far and if it cough me fancy, will comment it as I see it.

Sleep is the best things for me right now and it is my doctor's order.........zzzzzzzzzzzz

SK Pristina : How About The Students?

I think, now is the right time to write about SK Pristina. Yup, the school who getting a lot of attention right now.

I read and read and read, I search and search and search, but what I found out is, all the opinions comes from us adults. What more, some come from, claim to be a parents who's child's not attending that school.

Sorry guys, but if you not coming from that school, don't you think you need to do a researches about that school first? First and foremost, do all of you have any ideas, how big this school is? No. isn't it. It is a small school. From my reaserches, that all classes was in full capacity which translated to a lot of student that the school capable of provided. That for me explaining the canteen situation.

Then, come the discussion of the reasons why? HM state that it is due to construction. I know, he supposed to say minor construction but, well he said that and trust a lot of people will over analysed it. So, they spin around the fact to blame him.

But, if you really think for a second, you will realised that, how dangerous the minor repair/construction (minor or major)/renovation/installing areas for those kids. All this involving power cables, nails, wood, plank, glass, tools and a lot of other materials which exposing to the kids will be dangerous. Furthermore, whatever you try to proves, if you doing all those above activities, you cannot prevent the dust. Specifically, the HM state windows, so I assume glass.

Look when you doing a renovation in you house man. If you doing construction which a lot of people call it renovation, some opt to rent another house temporary to avoid dust. Even if you installing new kitchen cabinet, there a lot of dust and dangerous material around. It not dangerous to our kids but to us too.

So, what do I think really happen to SK Pristina? The issue has blown out of proportion. The issue of school small area get swallow up in this circus. The HM try to do his best but it not good enough.

He look at his student and don't want them to eat beside the longkang or steps, so he try to give them a place more comfortable for them to eat. I trust, his student appreciated it.

But we adult, simply want the best for our kids. Some will go to far as insisting others to follow their rules, to make sure their kids will always getting the best. That also means, what everyone been doing was not good enough.

Do the toilet door in front of the shower room? No. One of the picture, show that the children using the toilet beside the makeshift canteen to take wuduk. That means, those toilet was the cleanest one because not all toilet can be used as a wuduk place.

But the cleanest one in the school doesn't means the sweet smelling one guys. With 1000++ student, some will bend to be irresponsible ok. You have to remember, this is kids between 7 to 12 years olds. If you have your own primary scholar, ask about their school toilet and see.

But, it a taboo when people said toilet and as always we Malaysian tend to think everything involving taking a bath means toilet too. So everyone getting upset and things blow up, major. Now HM and the mother who posting the status got a death threat. 

Now, who winning in this issue. Not the school, the student, the parent or the teacher. Everyone lose........Kalah jadi abu menang jadi arang.....

Damia Izara : Dont Be Idiot With Beautiful Face

I try and try and try to stay true to my principle as a women and as an example for my kids but today they come home and asked me about Damia Izara. I inform them, I will search for her and explain to them later. Mind you, my kids is 12 and 11 years old.

I search for her name and surprise surprise, what I come out with is a beautiful young lady. Now, it make me wonders what she has done to make this primary school kids takes notice. And it make me sick when I found out that this girl, out of her radical supporting PR promised to run naked if BN won.

Looks Damia Izara, if you want to be famous, be a model or artist, but don't do the stunt like this. It the stupid way to get famous. Look what happen to Alvivi. Don't you learn a lesson from what happen to them.

I remind everyone including my kids to remember, "kerana mulut badan binasa" think before you speak. Look what happen to you when you forget to mind your mouth.

I get angry because, as a beautiful girls you have a great deal more to do than just stated this foolish remark on your FB page. One more girls going to face the bleak future just because of fanatical in politic.



I use her as example for my kids to mind their words. I said to them, this is an example of peoples you will meet one day when you grow up. Be careful. A beautiful face sometimes used to hide a stupid mind. Don't fall in this trap. If you grow up to be a handsome or beautiful man or women, wise up. Sometimes it better to shut up than blabbering a stupid remark like Damia Izara.

Yup Damia Izara is an example of beautiful face with a stupid mind. If she smart, she think what to post in her FB before issuing those silly promise. Only a stupid people make a silly promise. Silly because she want to run naked.

By the way, if these FB acc was just another stunt by the RBA, well, that RBA was stupid as well.

These ideas come to mind if you want to make a promise like these. Make promise to eat Ramadhan Buffet at 5 star hotels and paying for all guest lah. Or what about doing charities at all the old folks home in Kuala Besut instead. I trust the old folks will be more appreciate when a beautiful face doing odd job there, girls.Then people will thank you and trust me you will get the attention you need.

On the other hand, if these Damia Izara is a real person, please, a close friend of her advise her to be careful on what to post next time. Even if these a jokes, it not funny. What a waste......

For others, read Sya http://1sya.com/?p=7244.

Please...Janganlah Terlalu Ekstrem Dengan Politik Sampai Menipu

Jika anda seorang pembaca blogger tegar, anda tentu kenal dengan blogger APANAMA. Sudahkah anda baca tulisan terbarunya? http://apanama2020.blogspot.com/2013/07/hate-mongers-caught-red-handed.html .

Membaca kenyataan MP Kota Belut Datuk Abdul Rahman Dahlan membuatkan saya rasa agak takut. Takut melihat permainan politik yang agak keterlaluan kebelakangan ini. Permainan politik yang kini turut sama di mainkan oleh wartawan sesetengah media yang pada hemah saya, sekiranya anda tidak bersetuju sekali pun, janganlah di pusingkan kenyataan sehingga maknanya bertukar.

Menakutkan sekali bila difikirkan bahawa kenyataan seseorang boleh ditafsirkan sebagai anti sesuatu sekiranya dipolitikan berlebihan.

Apa yang menarik minat saya apabila YB boleh bertanya kepada pengamal media samada inginkan kenyataan dalamEnglish atau bahasa Malaysia. Bukankah itu telah merendahkan martabat wartawan itu sendiri?

Seolah-olah wartawan masa kini tidak lagi mencapai standart tertinggi dalam bahasa samada English atau bahasa Malaysia sehingga boleh dipertikaikan laporan mereka. Ramai juga wartawan yang samada sengaja atau tidak, salah faham dengan statement yang diberikan. Bukan seorang YB yang bertanya soalan begitu kini. Ramai.

Perkara yang menarik minat saya dalam tulisan blogger APANAMA ialah tentang transkrip media antara DARD dengan wartawan MK. Boleh didahului dengan "You want this in English or Malay" bagaikan YB telah menjangka sikap wartawan itu dan ingin menjelaskan sejelas-jelasnya isu tersebut kepadanya.

Dan kenyataan ini membuatkan saya hmm ok.

"This is not about your right, this is about maintaining harmoni kehidupan kita. Dan fakta bahawa mereka telah meminta maaf itu menunjukkan mereka telah mengakui mereka membuat kesilapan yang besar.

Negara kita ini, yang saya khuatirkan ialah apabila kita tidak mengambil tindakan-tindakan tertentu, ianya akan melibatkan pergeseran agama.

Dalam sejarah manusia ini, pergeseran agamalah yang paling susah (untuk) kita selesaikan apabila ianya bermula"

Ditanya tentang isu Ibrahim Ali ini jawapan beliau

"Saya difahamkan jawapan beliau ialah cara untuk melupuskan kitab suci al-Quran yang dianggap salah tafsiran, salah huruf, salah menulis ialah dengan membakar kitab (tersebut)... Ataupun kitab injil, kitab-kitab suci ini...ada cara di dalam agama Islam untuk melupuskan kitab-kitab suci termasuk kitab Bible. Dan membakarnya itu...menjadikannya abu dan ditebarkan di air adalah sebahagian daripada cara untuk kita melupuskan kitab-kitab suci yang kita mungkin terasa tersalah taip, tersalah tulisan. Other than that, you throw it in the garbage! Which one is more humane (berperikemanusiaan)? Which one is more respectful? Itu yang Ibrahim Ali kata.

Tetapi seperti biasa, portal-portal tertentu pusing dan mengatakan itu adalah kenyataan untuk membakar kitab injil. It’s not right...

In our religion, there is a respectful way of disposing sacred books. You have a choice (either) throw it in the dustbin and it goes into the dumpsite (landfill) or you burn it, kumpulkan ashes nya, simpan dalam plastic and then we go in the middle of the sea, recite some special doa, and then you buang di dalam air. You see, it’s a big difference you know.

But of course some portal would like to turn it the other way around. Ok? Alright. Thank you."

<Kenyataan penuh sila baca di blog APANAMA>

Nampak apa yang saya takutkan. Apabila tidak memahami sesuatu agama dan kita tanpa perlu cuba memahami dengan melakukan kajian lebih mendalam, membuat sesuatu andaian. Akhirnya andaian kita yang salah itu membuatkan sesuatu isu kecil menjadi besar.

Politik adalah politik, tetapi bermaruahlah sedikit dalam mencapaikan berita. Wartawan boleh mengamankan negara, dan wartawan juga boleh menghancurkan negara.

Kenapa? Anda tidak pernah dengar peribahasa mata pena lebih tajam dari pedang atau kerana mulut badan binasa? Jika ada yang tidak pernah mendengarnya, sila buat rujukan peribahasa terutama jika anda seorang wartawan.

Sengaja saya beri peringatan diatas, takut nanti ada pula yang kata saya suruh bagi pedang bunuh orang bukan islam pula. Bukan boleh percaya pun spinning gasing dia orang ni....

I'm A House Manager After All....

I have been busy lately. It is a fasting month, so I have to prepared sahur dishes early in the morning (around 4am every morning) . It is my routine job during this fasting month. And my babies love to stay up late now and thus make me sleep around 2 am each day.

So, it is a given when a few of my regular things need to do have been abandon lately. Now, around 4pm. I need to prepare for berbuka. Yup,  during this fasting month I'm sleeping around 2 hours per day not including a nap which come when I'm folding my clothes. I cannot count it in my sleeping time because after 10 min, my kids will call me out to asked this and that.

Well, I look at it as a blessing. Every year my weight will reduce around 6 to 7 kilos. It's my yearly achievement which I can be proud of, isn't it? Well,if not, at least, I will look good in my baju kurung hahahaha

On top of everything, I need to prepare for Hari Raya. Of course, that include, Raya shopping (baju kurung and baju melayu plus everything including samping, songkok and tudung), spring cleaning my house (everything, I means everything that been in the same place for more than 3 months must go out from the house), the angpow allocate to everyone need to be plan out and dry goods stocks need to be increases to prepare for families and friends visitations.

Each year, I plan it to the dot. Whatever need to be done, will be done according to my plan. My husband trust me with everything. He only designated himself as a driver. But, when to give duit raya (and every year I ask him to find me a beautiful sampul raya or I mogok) he is the one to refer to. Being a man, he in charge of it. Big man with many sampul hijau is everybody best friends. He always get a special treatment hahahaha.

So by now you know where the house manager  come from isn't it? Only a manager in charge of everything and has a driver (sorry dearest hubby, you ask for it hahahaha). So, that why I put my job as a House Manager. I manage my house, carefully monitoring the budget, request extra budget to the CEO (my hubby of course - suddenly from driver to CEO - Impressive hmm hahaha) when necessary, check and monitor inventory and lots and lots more without the Epf and socso hehhehheh.

So you still think the House Manager jobs was simple hmmm. Try it for one week and see if you still have your sense of humour intact. Me, well lets just say, I'm capable of doing it until I crash down. By that time, usually after 15th Syawal, my husband will take over the house for few days.

And it will always I told you so,  my husband reminded me. And follow with  For God Sake take a rest, he said. Then after 2 or 3 days, I will be good as new and found my routine again until nearly Raya Qurban, then it all over again but with less stressful.

So, back to work then.....

University Reject - End Of The World??? No...Lah

This was an advise I give to one particular little girls who received 5A1 SPM result. She want to become a doctor but with those result there's goes her dream. The days she received her result, she just closed her bedroom door and cried.

 Those of you who think she is a Chinese, think again. She's a Malay. I took me almost a week just to make her want to talk to me. I invited her to have a breakfast with me. Here what i inform her.

A lot of SPM and STPM holder, when they get their result and it not what they expected, they think that their dream was shattering to the ground. For what ever reasons, and I don't know who inform them this, they think that because of their poor result, they cannot achieved their dream.

Well, to whomever inform you all those nonsenses, boo hoo to you. Who said SPM or STPM was the end of your dream. A lot of people don't know what they want to be until they stumble into it. Yes, some know it and try to achieved it but to tell you the truth a lot of people work their butt off and then later found out, that not what their really want. Thus what now a new popular term pop-up. Chef Doctor, or accountant Chef, Engineer Artist or so and so and so. A man/women who become a professional in two different professions.

For this little girls, I inform her that in the profession of medical, it not only a doctor existing in it who can help people. Looks carefully. Do you think that only doctors around the patients. What about the nurses. Do you see a doctor doing all without the help of the nurses. And a lot of time the doctor seeking the advises from nurses due to their closed relationship with their patient.  

There's also a pharmacist, lab technician and etc etc who attached to medical profession. I said to her, that with her result, she still can persued her ambition but maybe it will take her a long way. Since a shortcut (by getting straight A1) was unavailable, why not pursuing a nurses courses instead.

After finishing it and doing her required working term, she can apply for medical courses with the backup of whatever sponsoring her at that time. Yap, nurses can become a doctor too. And during your nurses courses you get paid an allowance around RM600++ if you enrol in government nurses college. You got paid to studies.

No body inform you right, because they want their family to get it and not you. A little secret, if you a doctor but not specialist, a limited place for you to practise or go overseas, but if you are a nurses, you can go anywhere in the world. The demand of nurses especially from Malaysia has been increasing. They got the highest pay so far.

This little girls currently enrol in government nurses college and told me she will pursue her study to become a sister, after researching about this profession. Guess she found her calling after all. She promise me a lunch date all expenses paid in certain hotel as a thank you gift.

as for other SPM or STPM holder, not so sterling result doesn't means that your world will end. It means you need to think some more how to achieved your dream. If you get the best result that means you get the shortcut to achieve your dream. But if not then try to think how you can make your dream come true, if you really want it desperately. 

If not, try something else. Maybe your first choice was not your fate after all. It somethings else entirely. If your result not good enough to enrol you to any university courses, then go to technical college.  A lot of profession need you to have a certificate and if you have it, you can enter university easily.

And if you have a certificate, diploma and degree, in the world of working arena, you are a chosen one. You got the basic training not available to a degree student. Some profession, a certificate means that you have a certain license to do you job, level 1 or 2 or 3 and with a diploma and degree, can you see how valuable you are. You got an edge that only a degree holder who after SPM continue his universities studies, can dream off.

so don't be sad with your result. Used it as an utilities to improved yourself. Sometimes, the result you get is just a way for GOD to teach you early in life to work harder for what you want. GOD want you to think or maybe GOD want you to success more in life. Just try to become positive and you will found out that there are  lots of roads to succeed or should I say there're  lots of ways to achieve your dream, if you really want it.

Don't cry to the world. She don't have a time to entertain you. You and you alone can achieve what you want to be. GOOD Luck and Best wishes in achieving your dream....

Alvivi Saga, Kuala Besut And Nothingness Hmmm

Actually, I want to write somethings else, but I got hit by the writer block. I don't know how to explain it more clearly either in Bahasa Malaysia or English. So, I hold it in my draft box and surf my way inside the Internet.

Open one blog ofter another, oppo and pro gov blog and suddenly it hit me, no major issue played by anyone in oppo as well as pro. Well, there is a suam-suam kuku issue like Alvivi and Kuala Besut election, but that about it. No hot stuff for now they said.

Alvivi case goes on trial and both of them will be waiting for their trial behind bar. Well, for me they deserved it. What ever their supporter said, when everything said and done, they the one who said they will fight this till the end.

In indirect way, it also for their safety actually. If these goes out of proportion, they were the first in line to be targeted. Or they can run away to overseas and seeking asylum. They're brilliant and bright student after all, before their falling from grace lah- hehhehheh.

So, the chapter of Alvivi Saga half closed for now. It will be open again on the day of their trial. We'll see if their stories can create a sizzling effect or not.

Other story tried to take a front page is Kuala Besut by election. As per my writing, the hot news so far was who ever  vote for Che Long, means they vote for Islam (duhhh). It look like thus of you who will voting during Kuala Besut by election must vote him if you want to vote for Islam.

Even if PAS support Alvivi (ask Sya if you don't believed me = Sya v PAS ) and try to cover it by saying it a personal opinion hehehehe. Who are we to say anythings right? If we make noise they just denied denied denied (thanks lol from Helen Ang blog for these words) hehhehheh....

So there it goes. If big issue come, you will find a buzz in oppo blog. Because a lot of them take one issue and abandon it after one post, you know they find it not interesting enough. Not drawing a lot of blood they said.

And those who post anything to support Alvivi, have been left being alone and look stupid. Even LGE, LKS, AI not uttering even a squeak, blip or ugh for that matter. After bleeding their popularity, Alvivi has been thrown out to defend for themselves I guess.

So....nothing funny to say Sarah???? hehhehheh  Just..... the week is not over yet, who know what will happen right?

Parliament still on what. Oh I forgot about that hmmm . There's goes my bluesy mood when remembering it... hahahaha

Opss! I Guest They ARE Not So Brilliant After All

Now it is times once again, like a yearly fruit season, a lot of Chinese student complaining that with their good result they cannot attend their chosen courses in IPTA. Well this year there is a little bit different I guess, not a lot of MCA representative making noises about this problem. Taking a break haa you guys (hahahaha).

A friend (Chinese of course) said that a lot of Chinese now stumble because a lot of their MCA representative suddenly missing in action. With a laugh I said to him that their MCA representative taking a holiday lah. Working 5 years long with the end result of not getting elected will taking a toll to a lot of people.  Let them takes a deserving break hehhehheh.

So let them be lah. Everyone know the Chinese will complain every year regarding this problem right. There is next year to resolves it. But he said, this is their children future they talking about. Well I said, you said that you did not need government assistant. You can do it by yourself right.

With a hard work and a dedication and without the help of the corrupt government you can achieve success, That why you have the right to vote whoever you want. No assistant from government what ever you achieve right now right? Why crying in front of camera because you child didn't get their chosen courses. No need government assistant why bother to cry?

Now, we who vote the government still needed their help. That why we Kampung vote for them. we not so lucky that we can pay income tax. As you know, people who don't pay income tax was not well to do people right? Those who pay the biggest chunk of income tax revenue can send their children to oversea what. What more, can deduct income tax also.

After that joke, it look like it will be a while before he'll talk to me again. Took him a month after GE to approach me again. Feeling guilty I guest Hahaha

Some these brilliant student wrongly fill in their form???? Truely??? You just making a jokes right??? These are the best student in Malaysia guys. Come on. But wait, ohhh this because when they ask if they will accept the other courses related to their chosen field they decline. But a lot of people informed to this student and their parents to except the other courses and change to their chosen when entering the term right?

No? But if I know it why don;t you? Ohhh it in Bahasa Malaysia. But an Indian friends also know these. He read English paper totally guys. What no Chinese newspaper carry this info? So these Chinese brilliant mind cannot read English too??? How to learn if you cannot understand English or Malay man. Can learn in Chinese??? So after these all those lecture need to learn Chinese lah hmmm.

Guess it show we kampung more info savvy than those brilliant mind who cry in front of camera because they didn't get what their well deserved courses. Which have been given to them since they were born. So corrupt the government by denying that to them. Must be someone who bribing those government staff to denying their application right? After all their child is the only brilliant student who deserved those courses. Other paled in comparison.

A brilliant student who turn out not so brilliant after all when each year they  wrongly fill in the form, cannot speak or understand Bahasa Malaysia and/or English and then crying been treated like a second class citizen.

Well, hello, if you cannot understand basic Bahasa Malaysia or English, how can you want to be treated like a first class citizen. People don't understand you mahhh. After studying it for 11 years your suppose to know basic Bahasa Malaysia and English right. No???? So in that case not so brilliant lah. No wonder you cannot get to the IPTA.

Well, what can I say. We Malay usually go to Jabatan Pendidikan and merayu  by fill in the form after form. No journalist and cameraman to help us and whatever come our way we accept it first before changing it.

Guess you need to have publicity to get what you want hmmm.

Ohhh that why you all love Alvivi. Now I understand it....... hahahaha

BIGCAT: Being Ridiculously Self-Absorbed

I think al of you should read this one. I agree with BC totally. What about you....

BIGCAT: Being Ridiculously Self-Absorbed: Oh!  How exciting!  Some self-absorbed, mentally challenged characters are suing to declare GE13 null and void. And if the courts rule for...

The Saga Of Alvivi and The Star

For the first Ramadhan, I don't want to talk about Politic too much. After all it make you shudder just how much these people invite us to swear at them. I also don't want to talk about Alvivi even what they have done hurt my feeling. But they continue to hurt me with their posting one after another.

Yes, what they have done hurt my feeling. As a Malay Muslim, I expect other races in Malaysia know that a Malay Muslim do not eat pork. Yes, I expect it from other races in Malaysia. IN MALAYSIA. I expect them to know what a no no or taboo for other races. if I know what not to do when you visited or doing in front of other races, I expect others to know too.

So, why this Alvivi couple brazenly doing a things that they know hurting others people feeling, and the Star, why do you glorify these popularity seeking couple? You, claim you are one of the leading media in Malaysia and also don't know about what not to do? It no wonder The Star always being in the spotlight of  un-sensitive media/newspaper in Malaysia. It always the Star who hurt a Muslim with their insensitive news. Why?

Is it enough for you to apologise when you doing it again and again and again? Let me put it this way and I want to ask this to WCW, if I come to your parent house and I know you but I don't know who your parent is, I come and spit on your parent face - I though they just a maid or something. I then brazenly after knowing it said I'm sorry. Now I ask you this question, after I ask for your forgiveness, what will you do if I do it again? If you have a gun you shoot me isn't it WCW? The nerve of me spit on your parent face right?

Hash example? That WCW is how I feel. It like you, The Star, spit on my parent face. Worst of it, after doing all that you expect me to accept your apologise. And then you doing it again.

Alvivi, both of you claiming that you are smarter then average Malaysian. Not just Malay but Malaysian. I read between the line, both of your statement in media and these are the impression I get. You think, because you are so smart and brilliants that you can do whatever you like?

Please answer all these questions first. First of all, are you sure you are brilliants? Because dear Alvivi, a brilliant people don't make a simple mistake like your FB posting of Ramadhan Wishing while eating pork. Because for brilliants people, they can gasp and know that a Muslim and Jews don't eat pork. They will except it without asking why these people don't eat pork. The answer is simple. Their relegion forbit it. That it.

Secondly, If you are so brilliant, why making a stupid mistake and then giving those stupid remark like a stupid teenagers and then blame everyone? A brilliant people, when they make a mistake they try to right it. They will doing everything to correct their mistake and turn their life for a better not blame someone else. They know to munch their word before releasing it. But both of you Alvivi, seams to think that you need to push these path a miles more before stopping.

Remember, Malaysia still a conservative country. Ask your family and relative, do they shout on the rooftop claiming the relationship with you? I don't know about your family or relative but I know a lot of them give you a cold shoulder right?

Alvivi, these popularity seeking will end when people get fed-up with both of you unless you can create more sensational news one after another. And it a tiring job. Maybe in a short term it can generate an income but people doesn't like it in a long term. You will become an old news and cast aside. And you will always be remember as the disgraceful sex couple.

The Star, it time for you to seak a professional help, who can advise your reporter on the behaving like a proper Malaysian. Don't just shout to all that you are the matured news media while acting like a child whenever people complain you and just like a child apologise when making a mistake and then doing it again.

My suggestion, try to take a more media sensitive Malay Editor who know about Malay culture. Or if these is hard to do (after all it not The Star culture to take a Malay Editor right?), try to send your editor to studies a Malaysian culture. That a smart move to do. Then you will not trip on your feet all the time.

Of course it a wonder if they will accept my suggestion. It The Star we talking here. The media who thought they are above all Malaysian media just like Alvivi think they above all Malaysian. That why they are a good couple and good for each other.

Grow up you two......

When Politic Played Like Playing Game

Don't you find it very disheartened when you read on how people request help to certain political leader to resolved their problem and this political leader promise them he will help and at the end of the day, this political figure just remain silence and people will left to fend on their own.

It happen a few times already. Somehow, we see this political figure being re-elected again after GE#13. Somehow what they have done being whitewash and they once again becoming clean for a new term. Sad isn't  it.

It's like what they have done, because it not effected the majority, been sweep under the carpet. This unfeeling representative will then promise another things during this term and will (this I can be sure) remain silence again until next GE#14 or someone else help this community. Some have no shame at all and inform everyone that they are the one who help these community.

It like a game for these guy playing a mind game with a people heart and spinning everything out of contexts to make sure people will forget what they supposed to do. Represent the people. They playing it to the max.

I guess the allure of power and money are so great to this people. I heard somewhere (cannot confirm) that if you been elected two (or three???) you will get a pension for a lifetime. You also will get a free first class medical coverage for the rest of life. So you have been set for life after it. You also can claim a prestige of an ex-YB right. That means respect.

Not to mention the salary and allowance and etc etc that come during your service term. Yap a game like an FB's Gourmet Ranch or Marketland where you build your asset to achieve the setup goal.

But then, how can they lives their life by playing people mind like that? Don't they think about other people feeling? Don't they get angry when other people doing the same things to their family?If so, why do they still doing it?

I always ask myself, if I'm doing somethings or talk a certain way, how other will feel. If I'm in their place, do it will hurt me? Usually if it does, I will forget about doing it. Well, it sure makes me different from them right? But I guess I am a mere woman who always think that politic was a game playing by people who have no heart.

Think about it.

YB Rantau Panjang - What a......????

Yesterday, just day 2 of Ramadhan. Siti Zailah Mohd Yusof, Pas Rantau Panjang YB was a hot topic. She said that a women/girls can prevent sexual crimes by not wearing short and skimpy dresses. Today when I read NST, Leslie Andres writing not-the-attire-that-s-to-be-blamed was an apt way to answer her. If she read NST that is.

What more, a commenter from Annie blog also put it straight

Anonymous12 July 2013 12:30

So many commentators put their sympathy with the offender or treat it as a joke.
Who knows what tempts these deviants to rape and molest - shorts, a smiling face, a woman alone or even a child? Do people like Canny Ong deserve less sympathy for what they wore than Noor Mukhtar, strangled with her own tudung? How about kids like Nurul and Nurin - maybe they "tempted" their attackers too? The fault lies 100% with the attacker.
Does PAS really think that places practicing sharia law are a paradise for women? Often the victim gets punished as much as the offender, so crimes remain unreported, or some laws that protect women don't even exist, like domestic violence laws, so no "crime" is recorded. People like Siti don't deserve to be elected and I hope that voters (especially women) in Rantau Panjang kick her out as soon as possible.

 

Yes, dear readers, I hate it when people blame the victim when a rape case happen. It shameful. It like the victim was nothing to them. Why blame them when the victim was suffered tremendously.

 

But when this thing happen to their immediate family, they are the one who terloncat-loncat macam katak.  A lot of time, the predator come from their own circle. Some try to hide it because it a shame to be known that their best friends or old family friend involved.

 

When government try to introduce more bill to protect the women/girls they are the one who giving the loudest protest that make me wonder, are they the one who will be effected.  Some give a reason to protect the man from a vicious women (Yes, it a reason given not a few years ago - Duh).

 

And it a shame when a women like Zailah, A YB, talking like this and what more, in Parliament. Geezz, are you soooo out of this world, that you are not aware why rape case happen?

 

A friend, a policewomen inform me once that a rape happen when people who have the tendency to broke the law saw an opportunities to do it. Not how or what or when you wear anythings. If opportunities arise, but the tendency was not there, it won't happen. But if tendency was there, this people will make it happen even if you were in the safe deposit box inside the maximum securities area.

 

So if you out there think that people can prevent rape by simply change your attire, think again. Like Leslie Andres put it, "if honourable MB want to know how dressing can prevent rape, then there is possibly only one kind can ward off sexual predators - a suit of armour".

 

ON THE SAME NOTE :

 

By the way, some simply ask people to cover up because their husband love to look at sexy women. So they think the mistake was with this sexy women. Grow up lah.

 

If your husband love to look at those sexy women, buy that attire and wear it inside your house. He love looking women wearing make-up, learn how to use make-up expertly and wear it. Make sure he look at you and not those women. Buy those sexy lingerie's and expensive perfume if you must and wear it. Used whatever technologies available (halal) to achieved your goal. If he still not looking at you after what you have done, he not worthy of you (sorry man, it the sad truth).

 

We women can be sexy and beautiful for our husband. So do it. Don't just stand there and blame other people. Some say, I'm not sexy or beautiful. Bull. Let me share with your a women secret. A wife may not be beautiful, but she can be sexy as hell for her husband. So, up to you how much and where....okay.

 

Ramadhan

Yes, it come again. A time for reflection to me. A time to remind me that I need to fulfils my fasting obligation as a Muslim. Yes, I consider myself as a Malay Muslim. I'm a Malay and as a Muslim I need to observed the Rukun Islam. At the same time, I'm a proud Malay, not an Arabs wanna be, or Indonesian wanna be or Singaporean wanna be or what ever wanna be. I'm a Malaysian Malay and a Muslim.

That how I see myself. I still cannot understand why people view that other races who come from other country are better. What not to be proud of your country. What Malaysia don't have that other country have that make them want to  change this country to be like that.

I still cannot understand why people want Malaysia to be like America, Singapore, Pakistan or Afghanistan that some people go in the drove to just to study there. They say that those people observe the Muslim way of life better or more free democracy or no double standard or whatever then Malaysian.

But come on guys. In Afghanistan and Pakistan, if they observed it better why do they still treat woman like a second class citizen. Yes, it happen. Maybe not in the city, but two third of population still observe the practise to shoved women in the closet (means hide them). It a shame to have a baby girls there.

That why in that part, a girls is a precious commodity now. Yes people COMMODITY. In certain part, the girls was so rare that they go to other parts to kidnap the girls for a bride. It happen. Not much of that kind of stories has been exposed to the worlds, but if you know how to search for a data, you see it's a damaging trend.

If America or UK better, why do they treat Asian like a second class citizens. Yes, a double standard of European who preach that all races must be fair to other but they can remain exclusive. And Singapore, try to provoke the government and you will see what happen to you.

The Muslim for me should be working hard to achieve the best of two world, here and hereafter. After all they have been reminded 5 times per day every days to strive for a better lives in these world and after in Azan.

For me, the way Muslim should lives is to follow basic first, Rukun Islam and have a faith by believing Rukun Iman, then you do your Fardu Ain, then Fardu Kifayah and lastly whatever Sunat. Do your kewajipan to Allah first then your parents then your own family then your relatives then your community then your states then your country and then the rest of the worlds. Looks in Al Quran for answer before referring to Hadith and Sunnah. See, that my priority. My own personal priority.

I don't know about others and I hope people should respect it. As for these Ramadhan, I hope my Ramadhan will be better then last year. May God Bless All Of You...

The Star - Sore Loser????

Ok guys, it been a few days since I update this blog. Just now I update it in BM for the purpose of getting something out of my chest and just for warm up a little bit.

Then I read thestar.com.my:Softer-data-counts-in-media-industry. And try to figure up what these guy up to and why he release a statement like this. When I read Helen angan-angan-mat-jenin and a comment from her reader makes me realise somethings. The Star is a sore loser.

All these time they attack an Utusan but the truth is they really hate 394,026 Harian Metro achievement. But they didn't attack Harian Metro directly. I think because depending on the mood, attacking Utusan was making more sense then attacking Harian Metro.

By attacking Utusan, they hope the kampung folks will change to The Star. Now, if they attacking Harian Metro, the reader who read Harian Metro will retaliate. You have to remember, Harian Metro circulation is a mix up of urban and kampung folks (I think more urban but I still cannot find any data to support it). These folks is in the same circle of The Star reader.

In my on the ground observation, people who buy Harian Metro will also buy The Star. Just hang out around mamak stall who sell newspaper especially on sunday. You can see this trend clearly. These observation was around Seremban. I ask a few of my friends to observe a newspaper stall in their area - one in Ampang and one in Kajang. They concur this trend.

Follow the trend above, it makes more sense to attack UTUSAN and convert their reader to The Star. I think all these hype about re branding etc etc, was a way to get more readers. For years, The Star announce how they are the biggest circulation paper ever and then bammm Harian Metro take over. To make the matter worse, after Mei 5th, 2013, people start questioning the paper standing.  My observation also found out that people who buy Harian Metro now start buying UTUSAN and not The Star anymore.

Unlike UTUSAN who fondly covert to building UMNO brand or Harian Metro who will reported whatever they think is fair and will sell ( a lot of my friends said Harian Metro will report everything and does not afraid a retaliation from government - I reserved judgement), The Star cannot claim that their report was fair while a lot of their report was seen as oppo supporter. In a few month before GE#13 The Star blundly try to test the malay sentiment with a lot of what they said a mis print  picture or statement or commenter. Freedom of press they said if people start complaining.

Now taking over by Harian Metro, they claim otherwise. Well, for me, that a loser do. If you cannot fight it, modify the data or perception and as always, they the master of manipulation. If you read above statement it like they saying that Harian Metro is reading by a lower class. That explain the higer circulation. While their reader come from new media and NM (New Malaysian).

And they said Bung a sore loser. What about the Star vs Harian Metro? Clear winner was Harian Metro and The Star doing damaged control as usual, said circulation doesn't matter. If that not a SORE LOSER statement.

After this they will count in all their media reader including magazines and Internet portal as a prove that they still the most powerful news media in Malaysia. Cannot wait when that happen lah HAHAHAHA

Hmmmm Apa Boleh Buat

Ada beberapa perkara terjadi pada minggu ini iaitu

1. TV rosak (spt biasa power supply lah tu). Umur TV itu pun dah 15 tahun.
2. Kipas syiling rosak tetapi it expected lah kerana umur kipas itu sudah lebih dari 20 tahun.
3. Beli TV baru plus kipas syiling baru
4. Hantar TV lama ke kedai repair.
5. Kawan minta tolong kupas ikan bilis 6kg (dia tiba-tiba sakit belakang)  

Oleh kerana perkara ini saya agak sibuk untuk meluangkan masa di blog sendiri. Of course, sempat jugalah jenguk kekawan blogger lain sebentar. Namun beberapa hari tidak dapat update kan blog ini.

Memang menjadi pengalaman kali ini bila dua perkara basic tiba-tiba tiada. Biasanya TV akan menjadi entertainment unit di rumah saya dan kipas syiling adalah keselesaan yang perlu ada di ruang tamu terutama dalam keadaan cuaca yang panas malam dan siang. Anak anak siap komplain. Hai budak-budak ni. Ini termasuk yang umur 3 tahun tu. Penting betul TV dalam hidup generasi sekarang ini.

Pejam celik hidupnya dengan TV. Kalau emaknya tak jadi harimau mengaum, tak bergeraklah. Bila tak ada TV dan kipas di ruang tamu banyak betul chekadaknya minta beli baru. Jemu lah, panas lah, boring lah dan macam-macam lah dalam hidup mereka.

Akibat daripada tiada kipas maka kipas meja menjadi mangsa keadaan. Di bawa kehulu ke hilir. DAri ruang tamu ke bilik dan tidak ditutup sepanjang sebelum kipas dibeli. Lebih kurang 48 jam tanpa henti. Oleh itu saya boleh memberi jaminan bahawa jenama kipas Panasonic adalah jenama kipas yang cukup tahan lasak (kipas meja lah).

Begitu juga dengan TV. TV yang rosak itu juga adalah dari jenama yang sama tetapi perlu saya tekankan disini bahawa TV tersebut ialah TV 21" Hypervision Tube ya. Bukan LCD atau LED. Yang tube saya boleh katakan tahan begitu lama. Dia rosak kerana power supply - Fius terbakar saja. Kos repair RM60 sebab susah nak dapat part sekarang. Dulu RM20 sahaja sebelum LED banyak di pasaran.

Banyak yang berlaku pada model TV dan kipas dalam 15 tahun ini. Yang pasti ia membuatkan saya lebih percaya bahawa jenama Panasonic memang tahan. Setakat ini lah. Kipas, peti sejuk dan TV saya bertahan sehingga lebih dari 15 tahun.

So ada tak sesiapa yang hendak jadikan saya sebagai duta Panasonic. Boleh runding ok hahahaha....

Bung Mokhtar A Sore Loser???? And Star Damage Control

I"m doing this article on The Star www.thestar.com.my : stop-telling-people-to-leave when I become aware of twitter reply from Bung to Yee Siew Ming on Helen Blog. Like my comment on Helen hannah-yeohs-bff-got-bung-ed, it the way of The Star cover their NM and oppo leader (Damage control) and it's very funny really. I always get a tickle when oppo leader trip on their hand and feet just to cover themselves when Bung bash them.

I'm not saying that Bung is an angel, he shocked me from time to time with his statement but he colour the world of parliament like nobody else. Bung is one of the kind.

Some will rise heaven and hell try to find his fault. His mis-step will be voice out for all the sunders so that their mis-step will be covered. But Bung will be Bung. With a cheeky smile (and a lovely wife hehehehe) will take it as it is. A politic playing by a politician. He has a crocodile skin and for a politician in Malaysia, it a must. He always been an easy target to some but look at him. He just flashing his famous smile, apologise,  low down for a while and suddenly everything will be alright.

That Bung alright. And Gan Ping Sieu said he a sore loser. I got a big laughter to that statement. Who win their constitution during GE#13? (Drum beat please) Bung M. Who  Gan Ping Sieu again???? The MCA candidate who lose Mengkibol in 2008? 2008 not 2013. Mengkibol not Kinabatangan ahhh. Hahaha

When you read his statement it look like he won Kinabatangan and Bung lose Menkibol. Wait a minute. He didn't even constested in that sit this GE#13 lah...hahahaha

Their logic : Because Bung contested in GE13 and win but Bung win under the ticket of BN and BN lose a popular vote, so Bung a sore loser. Good spin everyone Hahahahaha 
 
What about that, I can spin a data to my advantage to. Guest I can be a politician hmmm.

Nahhhh to much time wasted on everyone else and not myself. After all I don't have time to spinning Gasing like them. Better watch Leverage re run if I want to get my experience on playing people. At the end of it, good guy always win (and their programmer/geek look so cute unlike a lot our politician hahahaha)

p/s : maybe I will publish that article tomorrow, if i can stop this tickle. Can get it out of my mind....Bung M a sore loser hahahahaha 

Kalaulah Mereka Tahu : Tak Ada Kerja?????

Ini bukan sambungan ttetapi berkaitan juga dengan siri dari tajuk di atas. Ini cerita yang berlaku sewaktu kempen pilihanraya dahulu.

Ada 4 anak muda datang kempen dari rumah ke rumah. 3 perempuan dan seorang lelaki. Mereka datang daripada jauh semata-mata untuk berkempen bagi memastikan Oppo menang pilihanraya.  Menurut mereka, atas dasar kesedaran inilah maka mereka datang untuk berkempen di NS. Lagipun mereka tak ada kerja buat masa itu.

Kerana kesian, cuaca pula panas waktu itu, saya ajak mereka duduk sambil minum. Ketika itu saya tanyakan kepada mereka kenapa sanggup buat semua ini. Bukannya mereka akan dibayar. Demi sebuah pejuangan, katanya. Kalau tak ada rasuah, salah guna kuasa dan pemimpin yang pentingkan diri sendiri, orang seperti mereka mudah dapat kerja. Tak perlu menganggur dan terpaksa pula bayar PTPTN. Mereka benar-benar berharap PTPTN itu dihapuskan. Jadi tidak perlulah bayar.

Kata mereka lagi, mereka memperjuangkan nasib bangsa dan agama. Mereka tidak mahu anak bangsa selepas belajar dibelenggu hutang dan sukar mendapat kerja seperti mereka. Pertukaran kerajaan amat diperlukan.

Saya tanyakan mereka, apa kursus yang mereka ambil. Seorang Engineering, dua Pengurusan Perniagaan dan seorang lagi IT. Bila saya tanyakan adakah mereka berempat punya kemahiran lain selain dari kursus yang mereka ambil, mereka menggelengkan kepala. Selepas itu saya tanyakan kepada mereka, adakah mereka mempunyai pengalaman kerja, jawapannya menggeleng juga.

Jadi, awak tidak ada semua itu atau awak ada tapi awak tak tahu? saya soal mereka lagi. Keempat-empatnya tercengang. Ok lah, apa kerja yang awak sudah minta setakat ini?

Jawapan yang saya terima, mereka minta kerja mengikut kursus yang mereka pelajari. Adoi hai budak budak sekarang. Semuanya kena diajarkan barulah boleh bergerak. Inilah kalau belajar sekadar menghafal sahaja. Pemikiran pun berada dalam kotak ABCD.

Jawapan mereka itu memanglah jawapan biasa yang diberi oleh pelajar-pelajar IPT yang menyokong pembangkang. Adik-adik sekelian, tahukah anda bahawa sekiranya anda belajar di Malaysia, anda belajar  banyak perkara,

Perhatikan kursus yang anda ambil. Tidakkah ada pembelajaran undang-undang kerja, perakaunan, programer, dan macam-macam lagi yang tiada langsung kaitan dengan kursus yang anda ambil? Itulah kemahiran anda yang lain-lain. Selain belajar menjadi Jurutera anda juga belajar menjadi akauntan dan pegawai HR. Itulah bila dikata ada ijazah tapi bo*** marah tapi hakikatnya itulah dia.

Bila belajar sesuatu jurusan, secara automatik otak terus aggap bila sudah dapat ijazah, perlu kerja mengikut bidang yang dipelajari. Hello, tiada undang-undang di dunia ini yang menetapkan ketetapan seperti itu. Belajarlah berfikir sendiri. Jangan harapkan orang lain fikirkan untuk anda. Kaau semuanya harapkan kerajaan, apa yang boleh anda banggakan sebagai pencapaian anda.

Salah seorang daripada mereka saya tanyakan apa kerja ibunya. Jawapannya, pengasuh kanak-kanak. Jaga 3 orang budak dirumah. Ibunya mendapat RM1500 setiap bulan. Saya katakan kepadanya, dia mempunyai ijazah pengurusan perniagaan. Cuba fikirkan, sejenak.

Seorang budak, anggaran bayaran sebulan RM500.00 Sekiranya dia jaga 6 orang budak, berapa pendapatannya sebulan. Cuma duduk di rumah RM3000.00 dalam tangan. Sabtu dan Ahad cuti. Kerja dari pukul 7.30pg hingga 5.30ptg. Kalau jaga sampai ke malam OT. Berapa agaknya pendapatan sebulan????  Makan sahaja yang ditanggung pengasuh. Susu, pempers dan jajan ibu bapa tanggung. Kalau budak berapa banyak sangat yang mereka makan?

Itu baru sedikit, peluang di depan mata tetapi tidak tahu mengambil manafaat. Adakah anda boleh mengatakan sebagai pelajar IPT anda benar-benar bijak atau anda sebenarnya lebih bengal dari budak SPM yang telah melakukan perkara diatas. Budak SPM itu kini menjaga 8 orang budak. Ada kereta dan sedang belajar part time ambil kursus Pengurusan Perniagaan setiap sabtu dan ahad.

Fikir-fikirkan anak muda....

Every Political Parties Should Be Like DAP

Read this  umno-should-just-be-like-dap on Annie blog. Hmmm there a certain logic to it you know.

First of all, isn't DAP always preach that their party is the best in Malaysia? They always hentam everyone who didn't share the same view as they are. Even Gerakan who similar to them got hentam gila-gila because they work together with UMNO in BN.

Poor other parties, because they work with UMNO they were attack kaw-kaw.

I saw a solution in these you know. These what they and UMNO should do. Bear in mind, I will use UMNO as an example. For others parties use these as a base ok. These were what they should do.

1. Follow loose coalition just like PR. BN need to be dissolved and all parties inside it need to register as single entity. Then as PR combine and create loose coalition. Just follow exactly like PR, but these time name the coalition BN. No more single logo to be use. Use your own party logo just like PR. These way no more UMNO try to get chinese support or MCA hamba abdi UMNO, MIC kaki pengampu and everything. No more single point to marks. No more BN.
2. All these single parties must follow DAP ways in managing their party. No more democratic (even with democratic inside their party name, they don't practise it). If they can do it, so can you mah. Just choose 20 best and then lets them choose who will be the president. If during those elections, your favourite didn't win, create a special position or rigged the result. Just annouce that Microsoft problem or typo error or lightning strike twice or the sky is blue or bla bla bla. A lot of reasons can be use to justify it.
3. UMNO need to open their parties to all but put in the form Malay preferred. Yes, if you want to joint UMNO you need to have Malay name in rumi and jawi and when registered you need to automatically use your malay name. Example Ahmad Liow, Salina Lee, Jamal Arumugam, Roslina Subramaniam. These way, just like DAP they will know you are indian or chinese but joint UMNO. MIC no more christian name mix up together with indian surname. Only pure indian name. Same as MCA. Only pure chinese name.
4. If you make a mistake, blame it to DAP. After all they blame everything to UMNO right. So as per now, blame everything to DAP. Justify it like Haze, because DAP didn't educate the chinese in the company that why they didn't aware about their people burn everything in Sumatra. Those create a major haze problem in Malaysia.
5. Spin everything to the max. If LKS crying, take his picture and spin everything he said. Choose the ugliest picture possible. Paint him as evil as possible or as angry or manipulative as possible.

That my friends is an idea following their logic. If they want to blame you, you can straight away say that you follow DAP. If they say what you do after this is wrong kindly tell them that if DAP can do it so can we. "Can we do it, yes we can"hehehehehehe